Together, in stillness and beauty. Watered down legacies. Imposed and self-inflicted cultural coding. Not spiritual or ritual or trauma porn. Food as love language; language as dis/connection. Counting (the) elephants (in the room). Sharing a meal- even if we only make instant noodles. Monolith or minority? Pending approval. Korean, Filipino, and assorted breeds of Chinese. Halfie, adoptee, immigrant. The imprints of my ancestors. This work is for our own enjoyment.